How to become a Financially Successful Woman is easier than you think. I will break down the top common traits of women who are in control of their money so you can also take charge of your money!
So how many of these traits do you see in yourself? And how many would you like to add to your life?
To recap, let’s see how it all works together:
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I had a one on one client in my office the other day, and she was ecstatic with how much money she has already made with Airbnb. Within the first month, she made over $400! The main reason she was so enthused with the amount was she booked a trip without realizing how she was going to pay for it. She always defaulted to using her credit card and figuring out how to pay the balance off later. You might be guilty of this as well, let’s just put the purchase on my AmEx and pay it off later…right? Luckily, she’s been working with me for the past 6 months and now knows that this concept is not the solution. She’s gotten away from this bad credit card habit, and knowing the many evils associated with the credit cards, she has now found a way to help pay for her trip.
And lucky for you, both her trip and strategy for paying for the trip, got me thinking about the number one goal I’ve seen among retirees: TRAVEL! 50% of the people I meet with, who are with coming up to retirement, say they want to travel in retirement and the other 50% say they NEED to travel in retirement. It seems to be on most pre-retirees minds, and they usually have their first trip already planned out. So I did a little research for you, and found some budget friendly travel tips to share. Some might not work for you, but if you are desperate enough to travel, then they are definitely worth thinking about. So keep an open mind!
My Top 5 Cost Effective Travel Tips:
There seems to be a rising trend of spending more and more on travel for retirees. Overseas Adventure Travel has found trips for people over the age of 50 has grown by 67% in a decade. Most people I speak with explain they didn’t have the time to travel or to really enjoy vacations while they were working. They feel retirement is their time to do the things they’ve been putting off for the past few decades. And while I can understand this, it is also important to remember your retirement plan and not to spend it all on a few trips. You are going to be retired for a long time, and need to make sure you stay within the realm of reality with your travel spending. Before you start booking all your trips, think about the following questions:
Jessica Weaver, CFP®, CDFA™, CFS®
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It is nothing new that student loans are becoming an increasing expense for college graduates, with the majority of students leaving school with debt equivalent to a small mortgage. It is no wonder they have trouble moving out of their parent’s house, trying to buy a car or house, or becoming financially independent. I recently met with my cousin to go through her loans and put a plan in place to tackle them as quick and cost effectively as possible. The whole process can be very overwhelming, and since the trend seems to be only getting worse, I thought it would be beneficial to talk about what to do before college. So let’s start before you even get to your new school.
How exciting, you are starting the college search process. You probably never thought there were so many choices out there, small and big, cheap (ok maybe I should say cheaper) and expensive, industry focused or liberal arts. The list of options goes on and on. Do you want to stay close to home or go as far away as possible? Do you want a school focused on internships? How about a campus so large, you will somehow get lost even after your fourth year? You will hear from everyone to put a list of priorities together to help narrow down the search, but what they won’t tell you is to look at the school’s value. What I mean by this is to see how much you are willing to pay for the extra “bonuses” of the school such as nicer dorms, new fitness center, great business department, or whatever it is. You are investing in this college or university, so think of it like researching a company you might buy. Are those added bonuses worth the hefty price-tag?
I remember hearing one person say, “I don’t know why we put a $200,000 decision in the hands of an eighteen year old. No offense, but $200,000 is a lot of money and the magnitude of that price-tag might not sink in when you are looking at schools. This is obviously the case since student loans have grown between $53 billion to $120 billion between 2001 and 2012. Colleges are expensive, and the price is only going up, yet wages haven’t gone up. More and more kids are borrowing money to go to these very nice but pricey colleges. I mean some of them look like country clubs! The problem is they aren’t thinking about what $20,000 of student loans will look like when they graduate. A lot have upwards of $50,000 of student loan debt. And then you add a jobs market that is NOT in favor of graduates, with the average income being $50,556 in 2016. However, that is if you can get a job!
Let’s do the math:
If you are lucky enough to get a job and one that pays $50,000, your net income after paying taxes is about: $42,000.
The average student loan payment is $280 a month or $3,360 per year. This is based on a debt total of $25,000 with an interest rate of 6.8% being paid off in 10 years.
Now your income is $38,640. But what if your debt total is double that? What if you borrowed $10,000 each year of school to go to your top choice for a total of $40,000?
Well your total annual payments each year would be $5,520 assuming a 10 year loan at 6.8% interest. And you would waste $15,239 from your interest payments. Is that school worth it to you to spend an extra $5,500 each year for ten years? Ten years is a long time to be stuck paying debt. Trust me, you will want to move out of your parent’s house at some point (I’m sure they want you gone too!), you will want to get married, buy a house, travel, and the list goes on and on. And having these payments can get in the way of those dreams.
Maybe it is and maybe it isn’t, but do the math before you commit. Just like any big purchase, put a price limit on your search. Here are a few items you need to consider before borrowing for college:
Jessica Weaver, CFP®, CDFA™, CFS®
Any opinions are those of Jessica Weaver and not necessarily those of RJFS or Raymond James.
In our last We Are Women post, I thought it was appropriate to end with the following quote:
“It’s a great satisfaction knowing that for a brief period in time you made a difference.”
Isn’t that the point to our lives, that we have made a positive difference in someone’s life? Whether it’s your own life, your children’s, your family’s, your loved ones, or whomever’ s life you’ve been able to touch. I am writing this post the day after my first book signing of my #1 International Best Seller: Strong Woman Stronger Assets. And I thought it was a very fitting post to follow up my presentation from the event since below was my speech for it:
iI was driving home the other day and a Miley Cyrus song came on. And as any Miley Cyrus song would, I started thinking about my life to new depths. I had my dog next to me, our baby girl in my belly going to see my husband and the home we have built together. And I thought this is what it is all about. It isn't about more money, it is about finding happiness and peace in our lives. It's about uncovering what drives you, what your asset is. Just like the title of my book Strong Woman Stronger Assets, Assets is whatever you are working so hard for. It's not to earn more money or save more money, it's about the lives you can change with that extra money. It's about having no stress over how we are going to afford this baby, college down the road, and her wedding. And helping women gain control and confidence in their life is what fulfills me and gives me great happiness.
I committed to writing this book the day after I found out I was pregnant. And something about being pregnant made me think about what kind of role model I am going to be to this little girl. Obviously we didn't know she was a girl yet, but it was probably destined. Being able to tell our girl I've been able to change women's lives and be a positive influence on them is such a great feeling. Our baby along with other young women and girls are a part of a movement where more women are controlling the wealth, more women are owning their own businesses, and more women are becoming executives and CEOs. And it all starts with gaining control over your money, getting confidence for the next chapter of your life, and clarity over what it is you really want, what will bring you happiness.
So let’s start the process and get you towards your own happiness. Let me ask you, who here has things in their life they’d love to get rid of? And who has stuff they’d love to add to their life?
We all have pieces we need to shred from our lives, and we all have dreams and goals we want to get to someday. What I want for you is to get to those dreams sooner than later and start taking action today to get them. We all become a prisoner to “maybe one day,” maybe one day I can travel, maybe one day in retirement I can exercise, maybe one day if I win the lottery I can help my family. One day, but not today. Well I say why not today? Let’s get to the core of what it is you really want, put a plan together, and take action. It all comes down to living your self-worth and opening up your eyes to what your life is worth to you. Let’s level up your life tonight!
So when you go home tonight, open your book to chapter 3 and think about 3 items you want to discard from your life and 3 things you want to add to your life today!
This is the first step toward getting the life you want to live. If you don’t think about it, if you don’t write it down, it will never happen. You will never take a step toward getting it. And it is your asset. Remember assets isn’t just money, it’s whatever change you are working so hard for. Maybe it’s telling your daughter as she tries on her dream wedding dress, “honey, I got this, don’t worry about the price.” Or “Telling your boss you quit because you are starting your own business, that you found your dream job.”
So what is your asset?
Now who likes to procrastinate? Who loves it especially when the thing they’re avoiding overwhelms them?
This is what I’ve found with money, most people are overwhelmed by it so they steer clear of it. This book breaks it down in a relatable fashion so you can understand why it is so important to take charge of your money. I interviewed over 50 women for this book and for my blog to get stories to inspire you to take that first step toward getting the life you want.
And here is an exert from the book to give you an idea of how relatable I can make it:
Think of it another way. Let's say you have a wedding coming up, and you need to find a bombshell dress. One where the instant you put it on, you feel freaking fabulous. I know you know what I’m talking about. Hugs all the right curves, maybe forgiving in some other areas, and your date can’t stop staring at your butt. But before you find the dress, you commit yourself to losing a few pounds. So, you wait a few months to start looking, then a few months turns into a year, and still no dress. Finally, it is the night before the wedding, and you find yourself in a dead sweat in the dressing room with dozens of dresses but no contenders. Let me ask you, did procrastinating benefit you or endanger your chances of finding THAT dress? You’ll be showing up to the wedding in an old dress that probably has a stain on your back, maybe a hole under your armpit, and you'll hope no one notices. If this is the case just for a dress, imagine how procrastinating with your life and money can turn out for you.
In the book, we will create your own plan so you know exactly what to do and when to do it, which takes all the stress and anxiety out of your money. You will gain confidence to move forward, clarity over what it is you’re working for, and control over your money habits. Too many times you don’t realize how much your money habits are jeopardizing your success and in the end happiness. When you see your bank account at a new low or your debt at a new high, your happiness plummets, your self-worth falls, and you feel like you’ll never get to your goals. But, when you see your bank account climbing higher, you feel better, gain confidence and belief in yourself, and your account can start racing to new highs.
When we are in a dark place or going through a transition, we forget our self-worth. We tend to value ourselves very low and think, “This is what I deserve.” Your children, spouse, and families witness it, and will start thinking the same way. But it doesn’t have to be that way. We all have a critter part of our brain that tells us we aren’t worth it, that we suck. By knowing it’s there, we can address it and silence it. This along with other tweaks and adjustments you can make will get you to start living the life you want and the life you deserve. I will take you step by step to give you the knowledge you need to know about your money, open your eyes to different possibilities, and show you exactly what to do at the end of each chapter. Information is great, but if you don’t know what to do with it, then it is useless. Isn’t it? By giving you a call to action, it ensures you will get it done instead of wasting another year being “stuck.” As I say in Strong Woman Stronger Assets, I hope this book is the piece that enables it all to click into place when it comes to understanding your relationship with money, and that your world will start to shift in the same way it has for me over the past few years.
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Views expressed are the current opinion of Jessica Weaver, but not necessarily those of Raymond James. Investing always involves risk and you may incur a profit or loss. No investment strategy can guarantee success.